Eating disorders are poorly understood, and there are many different perspectives on why they occur and exactly what is involved in their development and recovery. The quick answer, is YES. A person can fully recover from an eating disorder.
There are many theories pointing towards a combination of genetics, temperament, family, and social predictors. As of right now, all we can say is that these factors seem to combine in some people to result in an eating disorder.
For a long time, eating disorders were treated similarly to the addiction model for alcohol. This means they were seen as persistent and something that can never be healed, only managed. Some treatment providers still see eating disorders as lifetime afflictions.
For a very long time, eating disorders were treated as something that parents caused
However, neither of these approaches is currently considered appropriate in the treatment of eating disorders today. There is a large population of people who have had eating disorders who now consider themselves fully recovered. There are also many signs pointing to the confluence of factors (genetic, temperament, family, and social) rather than a single-source cause of eating disorders.
Can eating disorders be cured?
Yes. Any person can identify as recovered from an eating disorder – it’s completely up to the individual to define recovery for themselves. Some people who identify as recovered experience relapses, others find they must commit to recovery every day, and others feel completely free of their disorder.
Many of us move from having eating disorders to what is technically considered disordered eating. Since one survey found that about 65% of the U.S. population meets the criteria for disordered eating, this is less dire than it seems. In fact, disordered eating, in our culture, is considered “normal.”
And there are people who continue living with their eating disorders. This is not a crime, but a choice made by people that
full recovery from an eating disorder?
Since eating disorders are complex psychosocial adaptations, there is no easy way to define recovery. Nor is it necessary to do so. Each individual is allowed to state whether they live as a recovered person regardless of how others perceive their recovery.
It’s important to know that eating disorder/disordered eating status has nothing to do with a person’s intelligence, strength, or worthiness.
However, there are some common themes that arise in the eating disorder recovery community regarding what “full recovery” looks like, and they include:
- The ability to eat all foods (excluding medical allergies) without fear or shame.
- The ability to feel neutral or positive about one’s body, regardless of its weight and shape.
- Healthy coping strategies that allow us to process uncomfortable emotional states without causing harm to ourselves.
- Not attempting to reduce or maintain weight in any way through restriction or purging.
- Healthy interpersonal relationships that are fulfilling and meaningful.
There are many more signs of full recovery from an eating disorder, but these are the ones that arise most frequently in the community.
What is disordered eating?
Sixty-five percent of American women between the ages of 25 and 45 report having disordered eating behaviors, according to a 2008 survey by SELF Magazine in partnership with the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Disordered eating is a natural side effect of intentional weight loss, in fact, the majority of diets are disordered eating. The symptoms of disordered eating include:
- Desire to lose weight
- Fear of gaining weight
- Seeing food as good or bad, healthy or unhealthy
- Feeling shame and guilt for eating “bad” or “too much” food
- Eating in secret
- Binge eating after a period of restriction
- Restricting food for periods of time (including skipping meals when hungry and intermittent fasting for non-religious purposes)
- Ignoring hunger cues based on established times for eating
- Ignoring food cravings based on an established food plan
- Using vomiting, laxatives, diuretics, and detoxes to reduce bloating, calories, and weight
- Feeling compelled to exercise in order to achieve weight loss or maintain current weight
It’s important to know that a person who recovers from an eating disorder but continues to experience disordered eating is not a “recovery failure.” They are simply responding to strong societal cues and direct advice from healthcare providers, the government, media, loved ones, and even strangers.
Having disordered eating patterns in our current society can be considered adaptive based on the pervasive nature of diet culture.
Many of us who have recovered from an eating disorder and have the term “eating disorder” on our medical records will still receive weight loss recommendations from our healthcare providers despite the fact that such efforts are extremely risky for us. This situation exposes our society’s
Nobody has to recover from an eating disorder
One thing we know for sure about eating disorders is that they require some form of personal motivation in order to recover. This doesn’t mean that loved ones cannot facilitate and support recovery efforts, but loved ones must also recognize that having an eating disorder, and choosing to recover, is a personal choice. Nobody can force a person to recover if they don’t want to.
Non-recovery or partial-recovery is not a failure. It is just the way that one person is dealing with their individual psychology and societal pressures. We must recognize that many people live in gray areas when it comes to food and body issues, and we must honor individual agency when it comes to recovery.
All people deserve respect, regardless of their eating disorder/disordered eating status.
Eating disorders are not a crime, and they are not the worst thing a person can do. This is not to dismiss the fatal nature of a very small subset of eating disorders, but rather to affirm that many of us live along a continuum of disordered eating, and we should have tremendous compassion, respect, and understanding for everyone on the spectrum.
What we have to do to recover from an eating disorder
Everyone recovers in their own way. Eating disorders are complex, and therefore recovery is complex, too. However, there are a number of trends among people who have recovered from an eating disorder, which include:
- Healthy emotional hygiene practices – the ability to process uncomfortable emotions and manage anxiety.
- Healthy self-worth – the perception of being inherently worthy. Believing that we have value regardless of our appearance or behaviors.
- Healthy relationships with people – maintaining at least one healthy relationship that involves personal boundaries while sustaining deep connection and honoring each person’s individuality and worthiness.
Healthyrelationship with food – recognizing that food is neither good nor bad, and the freedom to consume food without fear. Responding to hunger cues and food cravings with food rather than restriction. Recognizing that a person’s food consumption does not indicate that person’s worthiness. Healthyrelationship with the body – recognizing that the body’s appearance does not indicate a person’s value or worth.
When a person meets these criteria, they are operating from a higher level of self-worth and confidence than that of a person who is engaging in eating disorders and disordered eating. As we have stated, not everyone needs to recover to be worthy of our respect and compassion. We wish for everyone to achieve as much self-worth and peace within themselves as possible, regardless of their eating disorder/disordered eating status.
Why many of us become social justice warriors and fat positive activists
Because of the powerful societal pull to constantly shrink our bodies, full recovery requires significant effort, and many of us who identify as fully recovered are active in the anti-diet movement and work to overcome weight bias and stigma while promoting a Health at Every Size approach.
This is because we see the focus on maintaining low body weight as an unhealthy societal obsession rooted in sexist, patriarchal white supremacy. To understand these concepts, begin by learning about the social determinants of health, which have a far greater impact on human health than body weight. For many of us who have recovered, fat is
Just as someone who has recovered from an alcohol addiction must navigate an alcohol-oriented society and sit through events and celebrations surrounded by alcohol while also being exposed to articles about the (nonexistent) health benefits of alcohol (based on biased studies funded by the alcohol industry), a person who has recovered from an eating disorder must sit through events and celebrations surrounded by weight loss advice, diet talk, healthism, fatphobia and food fear.
A person who has recovered from an eating disorder who lives in a larger body will likely be advised to lose weight “for health reasons” even though any efforts at intentional weight loss puts their entire recovery at risk. Aside from the risk of eating disorder relapse, repeated intentional weight loss has actually been shown to increase **not decrease** mortality rates (Journal of Community Health). Since almost everyone who has recovered from an eating disorder has intentionally lost weight at some point in their lives, their healthcare providers should actually be advising strongly **against** any future weight loss efforts. But, of course, most don’t.
If we pursue the alcohol analogy, recommending weight loss to someone who has recovered from an eating disorder is akin to recommending a glass of wine every night to someone who has recovered from
These situations and more inspire many of us to put the energy we once devoted to our eating disorders into social justice and fat positive movements.
Recovery looks different for each of us, and ideally, we find our own definition based on our individual criteria for health.