Non-Diet/Health At Every Size® Fact Sheets, Guidelines, and Scripts

Non-Diet & HAES Parenting Tips to Raise Body-Positive Kids

Even though our culture often promotes dieting and weight-shaming, parents have the power to do things differently. This eBook turns decades of research on weight, body image, and health into practical strategies for responding to diet talk, fat talk, and appearance-focused comments—supporting your child’s confidence, self-esteem, and relationship with food.

Using non-diet, HAES®-informed approaches, you can help your child build resilience, trust their body, and develop healthy habits while modeling self-compassion and body acceptance yourself. Every supportive interaction makes a lasting difference.

Non-Diet HAES Parenting Tips eBook displayed on a tablet for parents to download and use at home.

Raise Kids and Teens With a Positive Body Image and a Healthy Relationship With Food

This eBook is custom-created for parents, caregivers, and grandparents who want to support children without dieting, weight stigma, or body shame. It’s packed with evidence-based guidance, real-life scripts, and practical tools you can use immediately to respond to fat talk, diet talk, and body-shaming comments in everyday life.

Everything Parents Need to Know to Raise Body-Positive Kids:

  • Fact Sheets about weight stigma, diet culture, kids and diets, and more
  • Non-Diet Parent Guidelines
  • Scripts for responding to fat talk, diet talk, and body-related comments
  • Guidance on what to say and what not to say when discussing bodies, food, and health

The BEST way to help your child grow up free from body hate, harmful dieting patterns, and unnecessary guilt around food.

$49.99

$24.99

Child playing and enjoying food confidently after learning positive food and body habits from HAES parenting strategies.

Why a Non-Diet Approach Matters for Kids and Teens

Children and teens are constantly exposed to messages about dieting, weight, and appearance. Research shows that dieting in childhood or adolescence is linked to:

  • Disordered eating
  • Body dissatisfaction
  • Long-term mental and physical health risks

A non-diet approach, guided by Health At Every Size® (HAES®), helps children:

  • Build confidence and self-esteem independent of weight
  • Develop a balanced, guilt-free relationship with food
  • Resist societal pressures around dieting and body ideals
  • Focus on healthy behaviors like movement, sleep, and mindfulness without linking them to weight

By parenting with a non-diet, HAES-informed mindset, you’re giving your child tools for resilience, body acceptance, and lifelong healthy habits, while nurturing a positive, supportive parent-child relationship.

This eBook includes:

Fact Sheets

  • Weight Stigma
  • Weight Science
  • Health At Every Size®
  • Diet Culture
  • Kids & Diets
  • Non-Diet Health
  • Non-Diet Eating
  • Family Meals
  • Objectification

Guidelines

  • Non-Diet Parenting
  • Talking About Fat
  • Talking About Food
  • If Your Child Has High BMI
  • Body Acceptance
  • A Policy of Body Respect
  • Family Meals

Scripts

  • Diet Advice
  • Food Police
  • “You’ve Gained/Lost Weight”
  • “I’ve Gained/Lost Weight”
  • Comments About Other People’s Weight
  • When Your Child is Body Bashing
  • Little Kids Commenting on Fat Bodies
  • When Doctors Talk About Your Child’s Weight
  • Child Script – Responding to Body Shaming

Letters

  • To Your Child
  • To Your Co-Parent(s)
  • To Your Family
  • To Your Child’s Doctor

Say This/Not That

  • Compliments
  • Food Talk
  • Labeling Food
  • Fat Talk
  • Body Talk
  • Labeling Feelings

Plus

  • Principles of Health at Every Size®
  • Principles of Intuitive Eating
  • Prepare Yourself To Talk About Weight & Diets
  • How To Use The Scripts
  • Book Recommendations
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What You’ll Learn

This digital book gives parents practical, research-backed tools to raise children with:

  • Positive body image
  • Healthy, guilt-free eating habits
  • Confidence, self-esteem, and resilience
  • Skills to navigate real-life conversations about bodies and food

It’s a hands-on resource you can use again and again at home, in therapy sessions, or when talking with teachers, family, or healthcare providers.

Real-Life Scripts to Respond to Diet and Fat Talk:

  • Responding to your child’s body-shaming comments in a way that validates feelings while discouraging harmful messages
  • Handling diet talk from friends, peers, or family members
  • Addressing comments about your own body or other people’s bodies
  • Communicating with healthcare providers who focus on weight instead of overall health

Using these scripts consistently helps your child feel heard, respected, and empowered while reinforcing a body-positive, non-diet environment at home.

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Details & How to Use

  • 42-page PDF digital book
  • View on any device or print at home (FedEx, UPS Store, Staples, etc.)
  • Use the worksheets, scripts, and fact sheets again and again
  • Perfect for parents, grandparents, counselors, dietitians, therapists, and anyone supporting kids’ health and body image

Note: Please respect copyright; do not distribute. Contact us for professional licensing.

$49.99

$24.95

Why Parents Love This Guide

  • Gives parents ready-to-use language and scripts for real-life conversations
  • Provides clear guidance on what to say and what to avoid
  • Supports non-diet, body-positive parenting grounded in science
  • Helps children develop healthy relationships with food and their bodies
  • This eBook equips parents to confidently guide children and teens toward self-acceptance, confidence, and resilience without dieting, guilt, or body shame.

Created By Ginny Jones


Ginny Jones is the founder of More-Love.org, and a Parent Coach who helps parents who have kids with eating disorders.

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